So, here’s a little confession from one mom to another: by the time that second (or third) kid rolls around, you realize that parenting is a little less about perfection and a lot more about grace. We always joke in my friend circle that those younger kiddos are basically God’s way of keeping us humble. They come in with these big spirits and teach us, hey, it’s okay to loosen up a little.
With my oldest, I was definitely more rigid, trying to get everything just right, making sure every little detail was perfect. Then along came number two, and I realized that sometimes the most beautiful moments happen when you just let go a little bit. It’s like my mom always said: by the time you get to the younger kids, you’re a little tired, but also a little wiser. That’s the gift.
This is something I’ve woven into Krafted Customs too: we celebrate the imperfect, the evolving, the “it’s okay to just be real” moments, because honestly, there’s no parenting rulebook. We’re all just doing the best we can with the love we have. That second child (or third) is often a not so gentle nudge from God that it’s okay to exhale and just enjoy the ride.
So, if you’re feeling that shift in your own parenting journey, know that you’re not alone. How has your parenting style changed over time? Have you found that grace to let go of perfection and just be present? Drop a comment and let’s share our stories, because at the end of the day, God’s grace is more than enough for all of us.
Happy Saturday,
Onyx 🩷
